Virtual visitation helps children stay connected with both parents, even across distances. To make it effective, you need a plan that prioritizes consistency, communication, and care. First, establish a consistent routine. Kids thrive on predictability. Work together to set regular days and times for virtual visits, decide how long each visit should last, and agree on how you’ll handle missed calls. This stability helps your child feel secure and connected. Second, define acceptable communication methods. Agree on which platforms you’ll use for video calls, whether texting is allowed, and any guidelines for social media. By setting expectations upfront, you reduce the chance of conflict and ensure smoother interactions. Third, focus on positive interactions. Use virtual visits to strengthen your bond—ask about school, hobbies, or read a story together. Keep the conversation child-centered and avoid legal or adult topics. Finally, address technology issues in advance. Make sure you have reliable internet, a working device for your child, and a backup plan if tech problems arise. In Texas, virtual visitation can be legally enforceable under Texas Family Code § 153.015, making it an effective, court-supported option for today’s families.
Why ONDA?
Orsinger, Nelson, Downing, Anderson, LLP is one of the largest family law firms in the state. The practice of family law is not just a profession, but a deeply held vocation. Every ONDA partner is Board Certified in Family Law by The Texas Board of Legal Specialization.
