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Accidental Bystander to Cheater in Action, What’s the Etiquette?

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A commenter needs your help. Her cry can be found on another post but, honestly, it’s too good to let it get buried in last week’s news.

Question on this topic. A recent observation…saw a cheater recently – at a well known, third story bar – definitely not with their spouse. Friend level is not best friend but in the circle. Cheater did not see me as I was completely embarrassed and we left and they were completely not coherent. Do I tell the spouse? Do I take a picture with my camera phone and email it? Should I have confronted the cheater and his date? I can’t stop thinking about it but honestly don’t know what to do and I feel horrible about the whole thing.

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Merritt Patterson

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