Nearing 90, legendary hostess, designer offers advice, tells stories, tackles projects
Among her other endeavors and life trajectories, Gale Sliger is often remembered for her prominent 1980s-90s role as the hostess with the mostest.
She served as the lavish party and wedding planner for the likes of the Hunts, the Perots, the Horchows, the Brinkers, and many residents of the Park Cities and Preston Hollow.
Though Gale Sliger Productions closed its doors in 2003, Sliger, now nearing 90, is still on the move, full of stories, and getting things done her way.
“I actually played in the first state meet in girls basketball in the state of Texas,” she said, recalling her Duncanville Pantherettes days and humble beginnings.
After working secretarial jobs out of high school, Sliger took a job with the Dallas Ad Club.
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“I said, ‘I’ll help you till you find somebody,’” she said, chuckling. “It took them 13 years to find somebody.”
After years of more decorating, hosting, and design work, a 1982 breast cancer diagnosis slowed her down but certainly didn’t stop her.
“My doctor put me on a plane to MD Anderson, and I did 13 months of aggressive chemotherapy,” she said.
A job loss near the end of cancer recovery led her into consulting, more hands-on event organizing, and starting Gale Sliger Productions in 1984.
“Twenty-seven years I was the designer for Petro Stopping Centers,” she said, recalling her truck stop design work. “But that’s a whole other story.”
A call from client Edith O’Donnell asking for help with a debutante ball for her daughter sent Sliger off in a new and successful direction.
“We did the debutante ball,” she said. “It was all over after that. Gerald Ford, Ford Stadium, SMU. I did both of Ray Hunt’s daughters’ weddings, all four of the Perot daughters’ weddings, Ross Jr.’s welcome home from around-the-world in the helicopter, the opening of the airport.”
That’s what could happen with her word-of-mouth client generation.
“They all talk to each other,” Sliger said. “If they don’t, their secretaries do. I never hired advertising.”
Her husband, Jerry, who passed away in 2022, had been a longtime mechanical engineer for Ingersoll Rand, Conley Lott Nichols, and MPS Equipment, but he ended up designing and fabricating for social and charity events alongside his wife.
“I don’t care,” she laughed when asked her if I could mention her upcoming 90th birthday. “I’d rather be vertical. I’d rather be seen than viewed.”
Sliger noted her involvement in the Duncanville Sister City Project with Monasterolo di Savigliano as proof she’s not resting on her laurels.
“I just had 65 people in my backyard, because the Italians were here,” she said. “Raised a lot of money for the program. I’m also redoing the Lion’s Club right now.”
As we popped by the Lion’s Club to check on the progress of the upgrades, I asked her if she had any wisdom to share on her longevity and positive outlook.
“You’ve got to get outside yourself and see a need and do your best to fill it,” she said. “Stay busy. I cook a lot. I have two stoves in my kitchen. As long as I’m here, I’m always going to be busy.”
